You think your problems are huge? Here are tough stories or incident based on real life events which I had ever heard.

All of us in this modern world glorify our own problems and hype them up to such an extent that we forget how lucky we are. We have lost gratefulness and literally force ourselves to hate life even when we have all the luxuries. And most of the luxuries we have aren't even needed by us. Your problem is unmeasured and uncomparable with these true stories.

 

1. Sindutai Sapkal: Sindutai Sapkal mother of the orphan. 

She was born on 14 November 1948 in Maharastra, India. She belongs to a poor family and people use to call her chandhi' which means torn pieces of cloth. Her father wanted her to take education but her mother came against her because of her financial problems. When she was 12 years old she was married to a 20 years old man who was a shepherd. Difficulties arise but she still encourages herself. Now the story begins:

One day, she gets into an argument with a forest officer and landlord regarding having not received their wages of collecting cow dung from the forest. At the age of twenty, she bore 3 sons and was pregnant with a nine-month baby in her womb. One day she got badly beaten and was left her to die in a cowshed by her husband. The reason for that is because he believed rumors people had spread about Sundutai that she got pregnant by some other person and not by him. She got unconscious and gave birth to the baby in the cowshed. At that moment no one was there to help her cut the umbilical cord. She hit the umbilical cord sixteen times with a stone and broke it. After that, she lost all hope and wanted to commit suicide by sitting on a railway track, but ultimately, she wasn't able to go through with it.  She did not have food to eat or a place to sleep. She started to beg for food and she used to sleep in the cemetery. One day she even had to cook roti/chapati in burnt wood of the dead body because she doesn't have alternatives. After that, the thing is getting on the track.

She has since then devoted her entire life to orphans. She is called 'Mai'(mother). She has helped over 1,050 orphaned children. As of today, she has a huge family of 207 sons-in-law, 36 daughters-in-law, and over a thousand grandchildren. She still continues to fight for their next meals. Man children whom she adopted are well-educated lawyers and doctors. Her biological daughter is running his own independent orphanage. She has been honored with over 273 awards for her work.

A Marathi-language film Mee Sindhutai Sapkal released in 2010, is a movie inspired by her true story.

2. Bhagalpur kids and Steady Poverty in slums.

COVID-19 pandemic ruined the lives of people all over the world. Likewise, I bring the stories of Bhagalpur kids who eat frogs for their daily meals to survive, and about steady poverty in slums. Before this pandemic, the children were dependent on government education where they get to fill their stomachs in school by mid-day meal, get school consideration money, clothes/shoes others for the cover their body which is more enough to them. But now, the schools are closed and they can't even get good food to eat or clothes to wear.

Steady poverty has blinded the vision of people to work. This is a small sad story:

A poor man comes to a hotel and buys the full of tin fodder which includes customers' waste rice and other spoil foods. We think that the fodder is for animals but it's too sad to say that they use that fooder for themselves to eat as daily meals. They go to rivers and by using the net they separate the rice from the dirtier fodder and wash it afterward. They cook that rice for their meals. We can see that slums are the unseen portion of every country. Their childhood dreams would be to carry books and copies in their bags but instead of it replace backpacks by plastic sacks as they are employed in child labor to collect raw material, plastics, bottles others to sell it and bearly earn 50 to 100 rupees in a day.

3. Unheard cases of raped infants and underage girls.

A four-month-old baby girl from Hardoi who came to Lucknow was raped and killed in the process in February 2020. The accused cousin was arrested. Although some people consider that to be justice for the poor girl, in my opinion, even the death of the accused cannot count as justice. He ruined many lives because of a slight mishap, as he murdered an innocent child as a result of his sick animalistic instincts.

An eight-year-old girl was raped by her three cousins on Raksha Bandhan. Yes, it happened only a few days ago. The three cousins are reported to be above 20 years old. The suspects have been taken in custody and have faced charges.

 LINK for the above story: 

1. Sindutai Sapkal: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sindhutai_Sapkal

2. Bhagalpur kids and Steady Poverty in slums: https://www.dtnext.in/News/TruthExposed/2020/04/21210702/1226288/Are-children-from-Bihar-eating-frog-due-to-lack-of-.vpf

3. Unheard cases of raped infants and underage girls:https://www.thehindu.com/news/national/other-states/five-year-old-girl-raped-by-3-boys-in-rajasthans-baran/article32129724.ece

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/lucknow/uttar-pradesh-baby-girl-murdered-after-suspected-rape/articleshow/74183584.cms

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Student life with Part-Time Jobs

 Why do students always seek for the part jobs and what is the best part-time job?

 

The reasons for doing a part-time job is to earn money, develop skills and techniques, self-dependent, to maintain the gap between finance and their wants, to get more experience or knowledge in that particular field. Financial problems force students to search for a part-time job but they don't do those jobs. Since they take pride in their qualifications and standards, they feel uncomfortable and disgraceful doing those jobs. No job is big or small, because we seek every person's help as every job is important for the functioning of society.  I have also seen some students are doing part-time jobs and earning money for their basic needs, however, they sometimes get cheated by their employers, and the trauma of being betrayed shifts their focus away from their priorities. As a result, they don't get much time to study. What will happen if they have to do their part-time work during their exam times?

Mostly students and people also get trapped in the cage of difficulties were they invest their money and time without much knowledge on the subject, but more often than not, the companies are fraudulent and scammy. As a result, people lose motivation to do work. So, I will help you to study these things when you're looking for part-time jobs. I hope it makes it easier for you to fulfill your wants with enough security. 

I will not specify the common part-time jobs, which are easily available around your neighborhood.

I will begin by listing various potential jobs online as well as the offline marketplace which requires no investment. I'm mentioning these jobs to you in my own perspective:

• Freelancing - Being visible to other people who want to pay people for doing their work can be a suitable option if you are fairly good at a certain skill. Websites such as Fiverr, Freelancer, and Upwork lets you list yourself and build your work portfolio so that people can hire you to work for them, while they pay you good money.
• Survey Office Boy - Companies and government offices conduct surveys all the time. they are always looking for young people to go out and do the surveys for them, and that could be another great opportunity for you to make some extra money.
• Finding buyers for sellers' second-hand goods - Websites such as OLX and Quickr allow people to sell their second-hand goods, and if you find buyers for a seller who wants to sell, then you can earn a small commission for every buyer you find.
• Insurance Agent - Insurance companies are always looking to sell their insurance plans, and you need nothing else but good people skills in order to get hired for part-time gigs. For every sale you make, you earn a small commission.
• Back Assistant - Doctors' Clinics, Law Clinics, Hotels, Accounting Services, etc. sometimes are overworked and look to hire receptionists or assistants for their business to run smoothly. They also provide handsome salaries.
• Tour Guide - Tours and Travels services are often seeking part-time Tour Guides. You can choose to do the job during the holidays or also even during the night. 
• Tutor - Tutoring students in your field of expertise can be done online or in person. Fees from tutoring will act as a huge bonus for your pockets.
• Newspaper Agents - This is one of the easiest jobs out there, it takes very little time to distribute newspapers around your neighborhood and you will get paid by the newspaper company for the work you do.
• Translation/Transcription -  If you are fluent in two or more languages, you can opt for a translation/transcription job. This kind of job is available mostly online.
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I haven't mentioned ventures like blogging, affiliate marketing, Content Development, Making YouTube videos, and Multi-level Marketing because although many people believe that these can be done easily in short periods of time, however, that is not the case. If you have a lack of proper knowledge, no rich content, or enough time,  to pursue these part-time careers, it can prove very difficult for you to earn even enough to make your rent for one month or recovery.

The reason I excluded jobs like Babysitters, storekeepers, security guards, waiter and Delivery Boys, Logistics Company Drivers, others because these are very common and I assumed that you already knew about them. Also, a lot of Multi-Level Marketing schemes are scams these days, so my advice to you is to stay away from seemingly fraudulent schemes like pyramid schemes and schemes which ask you to invest your money, promising huge returns. Don't even think twice before saying NO to the people who offer you this kind of "opportunity". I do believe, "marketing is the best but it can be the worst if you failed!. Please don't rely on the company document its better if you do the case study. "We should get more details from sources like Wikipedia, Investopedia,  International, or National article/news websites coverage or other various reliable websites before entering this kind of job because they can manipulate our data or information for their interest". - AWARENESS

However, it all depends upon you how you deal with it but I can assure you that when you'll fall you'll get some knowledge and experiences which help you to grow in your daily life. Things get easier if you have a passion for it.

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Contributor: Hemant and Yugen

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What to do after graduating from college?

"Life after graduation, what next," should I go for higher studies or should I do start a new job? Life after graduation students get so excited to feel the power of freedom but they get confused about what to do after graduating. They are blindsided about their higher studies. Most of the students want to pursue the course however, they don't get admission due to low percentages, limited seats, financial crises, etc. and the remaining of them are searching for jobs and thinking to start new start-up businesses. 

Around 70% of students want to pursue a higher degree qualification but the challenges and difficulties grab their feet from the ground and the remaining 30% are job seekers who are interested in doing their new start-up or finding new jobs to secure their life. The challenges can include financial crisis, self-dependence, low performing marks, limited seats for higher education, domestic problems, etc. Most of the people suggest that distance education along with jobs give all possible outcome to reduce the financial crisis and bring more stability to the student. Yes, I also, believe distance education brings lots of opportunities but there is some deviational gap between distance and regular courses. In distance education, you don't get proper guidance, nor inter-reaction with others which makes you lazier but it depends upon you that how to perform and how curious you are about it. This brings a more realistic experience in your life. Only 20% of students get admission in regular higher courses. We have to pursue higher qualifications because we get a lot of opportunities, get in-depth knowledge of that particular subject, less competition, and secure career. 

 

Career after completing graduation you can apply for civil servant jobs, Banking, Teaching, Private sectors, etc. We all know that most of the sector job recruitment heads ask only for a graduation certificate. Those are big opportunities to light your future career. Regarding this, if you want to do the job after your graduation and thinking about to start a new startup I will support you to do those things cause this will help you to build your skill, experiences, secure career, boost knowledge and interest but I remark you if you don't have any interest,  not passion or self-actualization regarding that job please don't go further because it will ruin your life and waste your time. If you need huge capital/cash you can search angle investors on the website for your new startup. 

We have seen a lot of students joining the Private universities which tend to bring lots of financial crunches to pay their admission fees. To avoid such kind of problems and challenges you can do part-time jobs like data entry, academic tutor, affiliate marketing, dropshipping, survey person, blogging, freelancing, etc. but you have to do a lot of struggle to come up. I suggest you take an education loan cause this is the best way to reduce this kind of problem. In education loans, we get enough time to repay and get the least interest charge but there are some criteria you have to fulfill you should have good marks, you need to keep your things collateral or guarantee. I know people get scared when I use the word 'loan'. It will chase our minds and create psychological threats to ourselves. 

This is due to the brainwashing properties of digital media like movies and TV, which show loans in a bad light. But the reality is that it works like leverage for you to climb up the ladder of success. 

I asked you this question about how you can't do this. If you think, you're not in that position to pay after completing your education then why you are pursuing the qualification in the first place? It ultimately connects the same position as before. The last way to tackle this kind of financial crisis you can fill up the Government scheme PG Scholarship Scheme, Prerana Scheme for Preparing SC / ST Students for Higher Education, more other welfare scholarship schemes. Basically, this scheme has different criteria and varies the amount with your marks, caste, education, area others. Generally, students deny themselves to check those schemes due to the low marking, caste, document, reservation, etc, but most of the schemes have 50 % of graduation marks eligibility and huge chances to approve.

Placement Investors for students are also a good choice for college students because they provide all the financial resources to students in exchange for them to work in their own companies after graduating from specialized courses.   

I know that I can't able to solve all the problems but I can suggest the best opinion for you. If you want to do higher studies do regular class cause we know how it worth it and see the rank of that University. After that, you can select your second option distance education from Indira Gandhi National Open University (IGNOU)Symbiosis Centre for Distance Learning, Sikkim Manipal University. I strongly recommend you, people, to not do a gap year because you'll face a lot of problems your mind gets dull if you don't keep in touch with books. Please don't deal with the agents or intermediaries who are frauding with the student's career to pump their money bags and it is better if, you carry more details about it. Students searching for online jobs are beware of cyber fraud because there are a lot of websites that manipulate you and your resume information.  

We are more thankful to our Government that they provide free education to graduation level but I think if we invest the scholar, scheme funds into the development for higher education (Masters and Doctorate level) it will ultimately benefit all because a lot of money invested in the development of government educational institution infrastructures, adding faculty members, equipment, Increase in the number of seats, etc. will pay off in the long run. The students will never have financial crunches and other problems when it comes to pursuing higher-level colleges. It will ultimately benefit all students pursuing higher education.

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Contributor: Hemant, Jitra and Sonam

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