You think your problems are huge? Here are tough stories or incident based on real life events which I had ever heard.

All of us in this modern world glorify our own problems and hype them up to such an extent that we forget how lucky we are. We have lost gratefulness and literally force ourselves to hate life even when we have all the luxuries. And most of the luxuries we have aren't even needed by us. Your problem is unmeasured and uncomparable with these true stories.

 

1. Sindutai Sapkal: Sindutai Sapkal mother of the orphan. 

She was born on 14 November 1948 in Maharastra, India. She belongs to a poor family and people use to call her chandhi' which means torn pieces of cloth. Her father wanted her to take education but her mother came against her because of her financial problems. When she was 12 years old she was married to a 20 years old man who was a shepherd. Difficulties arise but she still encourages herself. Now the story begins:

One day, she gets into an argument with a forest officer and landlord regarding having not received their wages of collecting cow dung from the forest. At the age of twenty, she bore 3 sons and was pregnant with a nine-month baby in her womb. One day she got badly beaten and was left her to die in a cowshed by her husband. The reason for that is because he believed rumors people had spread about Sundutai that she got pregnant by some other person and not by him. She got unconscious and gave birth to the baby in the cowshed. At that moment no one was there to help her cut the umbilical cord. She hit the umbilical cord sixteen times with a stone and broke it. After that, she lost all hope and wanted to commit suicide by sitting on a railway track, but ultimately, she wasn't able to go through with it.  She did not have food to eat or a place to sleep. She started to beg for food and she used to sleep in the cemetery. One day she even had to cook roti/chapati in burnt wood of the dead body because she doesn't have alternatives. After that, the thing is getting on the track.

She has since then devoted her entire life to orphans. She is called 'Mai'(mother). She has helped over 1,050 orphaned children. As of today, she has a huge family of 207 sons-in-law, 36 daughters-in-law, and over a thousand grandchildren. She still continues to fight for their next meals. Man children whom she adopted are well-educated lawyers and doctors. Her biological daughter is running his own independent orphanage. She has been honored with over 273 awards for her work.

A Marathi-language film Mee Sindhutai Sapkal released in 2010, is a movie inspired by her true story.

2. Bhagalpur kids and Steady Poverty in slums.

COVID-19 pandemic ruined the lives of people all over the world. Likewise, I bring the stories of Bhagalpur kids who eat frogs for their daily meals to survive, and about steady poverty in slums. Before this pandemic, the children were dependent on government education where they get to fill their stomachs in school by mid-day meal, get school consideration money, clothes/shoes others for the cover their body which is more enough to them. But now, the schools are closed and they can't even get good food to eat or clothes to wear.

Steady poverty has blinded the vision of people to work. This is a small sad story:

A poor man comes to a hotel and buys the full of tin fodder which includes customers' waste rice and other spoil foods. We think that the fodder is for animals but it's too sad to say that they use that fooder for themselves to eat as daily meals. They go to rivers and by using the net they separate the rice from the dirtier fodder and wash it afterward. They cook that rice for their meals. We can see that slums are the unseen portion of every country. Their childhood dreams would be to carry books and copies in their bags but instead of it replace backpacks by plastic sacks as they are employed in child labor to collect raw material, plastics, bottles others to sell it and bearly earn 50 to 100 rupees in a day.

3. Unheard cases of raped infants and underage girls.

A four-month-old baby girl from Hardoi who came to Lucknow was raped and killed in the process in February 2020. The accused cousin was arrested. Although some people consider that to be justice for the poor girl, in my opinion, even the death of the accused cannot count as justice. He ruined many lives because of a slight mishap, as he murdered an innocent child as a result of his sick animalistic instincts.

An eight-year-old girl was raped by her three cousins on Raksha Bandhan. Yes, it happened only a few days ago. The three cousins are reported to be above 20 years old. The suspects have been taken in custody and have faced charges.

 LINK for the above story: 

1. Sindutai Sapkal: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sindhutai_Sapkal

2. Bhagalpur kids and Steady Poverty in slums: https://www.dtnext.in/News/TruthExposed/2020/04/21210702/1226288/Are-children-from-Bihar-eating-frog-due-to-lack-of-.vpf

3. Unheard cases of raped infants and underage girls:https://www.thehindu.com/news/national/other-states/five-year-old-girl-raped-by-3-boys-in-rajasthans-baran/article32129724.ece

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/lucknow/uttar-pradesh-baby-girl-murdered-after-suspected-rape/articleshow/74183584.cms

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Student life with Part-Time Jobs

 Why do students always seek for the part jobs and what is the best part-time job?

 

The reasons for doing a part-time job is to earn money, develop skills and techniques, self-dependent, to maintain the gap between finance and their wants, to get more experience or knowledge in that particular field. Financial problems force students to search for a part-time job but they don't do those jobs. Since they take pride in their qualifications and standards, they feel uncomfortable and disgraceful doing those jobs. No job is big or small, because we seek every person's help as every job is important for the functioning of society.  I have also seen some students are doing part-time jobs and earning money for their basic needs, however, they sometimes get cheated by their employers, and the trauma of being betrayed shifts their focus away from their priorities. As a result, they don't get much time to study. What will happen if they have to do their part-time work during their exam times?

Mostly students and people also get trapped in the cage of difficulties were they invest their money and time without much knowledge on the subject, but more often than not, the companies are fraudulent and scammy. As a result, people lose motivation to do work. So, I will help you to study these things when you're looking for part-time jobs. I hope it makes it easier for you to fulfill your wants with enough security. 

I will not specify the common part-time jobs, which are easily available around your neighborhood.

I will begin by listing various potential jobs online as well as the offline marketplace which requires no investment. I'm mentioning these jobs to you in my own perspective:

• Freelancing - Being visible to other people who want to pay people for doing their work can be a suitable option if you are fairly good at a certain skill. Websites such as Fiverr, Freelancer, and Upwork lets you list yourself and build your work portfolio so that people can hire you to work for them, while they pay you good money.
• Survey Office Boy - Companies and government offices conduct surveys all the time. they are always looking for young people to go out and do the surveys for them, and that could be another great opportunity for you to make some extra money.
• Finding buyers for sellers' second-hand goods - Websites such as OLX and Quickr allow people to sell their second-hand goods, and if you find buyers for a seller who wants to sell, then you can earn a small commission for every buyer you find.
• Insurance Agent - Insurance companies are always looking to sell their insurance plans, and you need nothing else but good people skills in order to get hired for part-time gigs. For every sale you make, you earn a small commission.
• Back Assistant - Doctors' Clinics, Law Clinics, Hotels, Accounting Services, etc. sometimes are overworked and look to hire receptionists or assistants for their business to run smoothly. They also provide handsome salaries.
• Tour Guide - Tours and Travels services are often seeking part-time Tour Guides. You can choose to do the job during the holidays or also even during the night. 
• Tutor - Tutoring students in your field of expertise can be done online or in person. Fees from tutoring will act as a huge bonus for your pockets.
• Newspaper Agents - This is one of the easiest jobs out there, it takes very little time to distribute newspapers around your neighborhood and you will get paid by the newspaper company for the work you do.
• Translation/Transcription -  If you are fluent in two or more languages, you can opt for a translation/transcription job. This kind of job is available mostly online.
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I haven't mentioned ventures like blogging, affiliate marketing, Content Development, Making YouTube videos, and Multi-level Marketing because although many people believe that these can be done easily in short periods of time, however, that is not the case. If you have a lack of proper knowledge, no rich content, or enough time,  to pursue these part-time careers, it can prove very difficult for you to earn even enough to make your rent for one month or recovery.

The reason I excluded jobs like Babysitters, storekeepers, security guards, waiter and Delivery Boys, Logistics Company Drivers, others because these are very common and I assumed that you already knew about them. Also, a lot of Multi-Level Marketing schemes are scams these days, so my advice to you is to stay away from seemingly fraudulent schemes like pyramid schemes and schemes which ask you to invest your money, promising huge returns. Don't even think twice before saying NO to the people who offer you this kind of "opportunity". I do believe, "marketing is the best but it can be the worst if you failed!. Please don't rely on the company document its better if you do the case study. "We should get more details from sources like Wikipedia, Investopedia,  International, or National article/news websites coverage or other various reliable websites before entering this kind of job because they can manipulate our data or information for their interest". - AWARENESS

However, it all depends upon you how you deal with it but I can assure you that when you'll fall you'll get some knowledge and experiences which help you to grow in your daily life. Things get easier if you have a passion for it.

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Contributor: Hemant and Yugen

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How academic life get stuck on the spot and lift up the challenges on student life?

Life with education and life without education simplifies the deviation gap between the people. In this pandemic situation of the world, lockdown collapsed and disturbed all activity. In these activities, education plays a crucial role in people's life. Every educational institution such as schools, colleges, universities, and other institutions are at a standstill and are facing lots of problems. The activities that are performed regularly by them are now, conducting throughout e-education/online modes because they don't have further alternatives. According to UNESCO research, since the outbreak of corona began, billions of students of 138 counties worldwide have been affected by the pandemic, and nearly millions of teachers and lecturers are no longer in the classroom. All educational institutions are trying there level best to fill the gap between education and student. This is a tough moment for teachers and students because they're facing different challenges day by day and understanding the value of the regular classes. 

     

Academic life gets stuck on the spot and lifts up the challenges on student life through E-education, Poverty/Financial crisis, Pvt. fees, leisure time, domestic violence. 

1)E-education/Online classes: People are facing lots of problems through e-education/online mode but, there are no other alternatives. The problems such as lack of affordability and networking, cheating, group chats, and conferences, etc, enhance the inequality among the students is not measured. The absence of student/teacher in the given days is the most common thing that we see in online classes. The syllabus is incomplete due to fewer instruments/materials like measurement kits/medical equipment/lab equipment that are not provided to use in practices for the engineer/medical/pharma student, guidelines and books,, case studies/ internships for management students, etc. cause they had already returned to their homes and were persuing online study and online test without any practice.

Some students might think the online test is so easy but teachers shouldn't be as cruel to give tough questions since they also believe in this situation. Even students are not willing to be able to drop/gap their classes or sacrifice one year and walk without knowledge qualification. 

Then why do some students avoid E-education/online classes? My question to them is - are there other alternatives available? If yes then, they should pass/convey the message to the higher authority or else stay quiet? This problem can be slightly reduced through shifting the practical subject by theoretical subject will help to achieve an effective and efficient way to leverage the study and find us the material that is needed to understand because we know that the theoretical subject is easier to understand rather than the practical subject in online classes. This might be helpful to the student as well as the institutions and we know several subjects can't be changed and shifted with the course so, in this case, we don't have the alternatives. For, another problem for the e-education/online classes students can't afford electronic devices/gadgets such as mobiles, laptops, etc. and lack of networking, in this scenario, it's our public responsibility/humanity to share the gadgets/devices and lending notes, copies, books to help them overcome from that particular situation. We know that we can't able to help every person but, we can reduce the level but the thing to remark about awareness of the Covid-19  or else.

     

 2) Poverty: Besides this, poverty has risen this kind of circumstance. Some parents are deployed and compelled to withdraw their children from school/colleges due to financial weakness and take them for work to earn some extra money to survive because they don't have other options. Poor students join schools for the free mid-day meals, cloths, compensation schemes which are provided by the Government to bring the reform in literacy rate but now, the mid-day meal, cloths, compensation are totally getting stuck. It isn't their fault for being poor. For, the children of poor people we know our Govt., Society, Celebrity, Pvt. organization, etc. are doing lots of things to overcome these phases/challenges to stable because this is the indefinite truth of every poor people. I also can't explain how disgraceful a life they're surviving and they are still unseen to us.  

3) Leisure time: In this lockdown, the student may get enough leisure time to do some extra activities. Most probably, the students are busy watchings there best web series, movies, playing games, surfing social media, helping their families, analyzing interesting subjects, developing their skills and knowledge, etc. Some students are very lucky to utilize leisure time to turn threats into opportunities and develop their skills but some students are so confused and are questioning themselves because they have enough leisure time. 

We recommend them to use leisure time through with subject interest like free online courses with certificate - Google adds, Coursera, IGOT, Tally, Khan Academy, etc. YouTubing, photography, painting, Freelance, Online speaking class, other such skill development subject or else, they can start preparing for their job vacancies test or they can think about the new innovation, idea, business plan and they can also, find angel investors to invest on their innovation, idea, a business plan with zero risk payment and zero capital/cash.

       

4) Domestic Violence: In this current situation, there is an increase of 20% of domestic violence cases in the world due to the lockdown and which indirectly impacts student life. Generally, this domestic violence is increasing through unemployment, anxiety, isolation, bad thoughts, and financial crisis. To reducing this kind of domestic violence parents and elders should understand the impact and try to solve it in another best way.  

5) PVT. fees: There are no relaxation fees on the Pvt. school/college fees even the students are not using/utilizing the instrument fees like library fees, computer fees, sports fees, gym fees, hostel fees, canteen fees, etc. We are also, confused that, this educational institution is profit-oriented or student-oriented? We do believe, some of Pvt teachers are not getting remove actual paying salaries as they get before, 'cause, they get the deduction. why doesn't this refer to the student's total fee structure? 

My question is, 'why do we have to pay all these fees when students don't utilize/use it? We/Govt. must think of it,  there is no need to pay all these fees, cause the student are not utilizing/using except teacher/tutor fees? 

For these things why students have to pay the total amount why don't they can provide some exemption on total fees. we know the circumstances cause they have to pay the rent, depreciation, service, bills, etc. This scenario completely abandon.  

 However, we can't erase this kind of challenge which is harming directly and indirectly to the education/academic activities as well as student life but, we can lift up and use such leverage to reduce it. All people do beliefs and thankful to all their educational institutions and government for standing up forward and tackling the problems, showing alternatives, providing solutions/guidelines in the best possible way and we must follow up those guidelines. 

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