Showing posts with label #reallifereality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #reallifereality. Show all posts

Sunday, August 9, 2020

You think your problems are huge? Here are tough stories or incident based on real life events which I had ever heard.

All of us in this modern world glorify our own problems and hype them up to such an extent that we forget how lucky we are. We have lost gratefulness and literally force ourselves to hate life even when we have all the luxuries. And most of the luxuries we have aren't even needed by us. Your problem is unmeasured and uncomparable with these true stories.

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1. Sindutai Sapkal: Sindutai Sapkal mother of the orphan. 
She was born on 14 November 1948 in Maharastra, India. She belongs to a poor family and people use to call her chandhi' which means torn pieces of cloth. Her father wanted her to take education but her mother came against her because of her financial problems. When she was 12 years old she was married to a 20 years old man who was a shepherd. Difficulties arise but she still encourages herself. Now the story begins:
One day, she gets into an argument with a forest officer and landlord regarding having not received their wages of collecting cow dung from the forest. At the age of twenty, she bore 3 sons and was pregnant with a nine-month baby in her womb. One day she got badly beaten and was left her to die in a cowshed by her husband. The reason for that is because he believed rumors people had spread about Sundutai that she got pregnant by some other person and not by him. She got unconscious and gave birth to the baby in the cowshed. At that moment no one was there to help her cut the umbilical cord. She hit the umbilical cord sixteen times with a stone and broke it. After that, she lost all hope and wanted to commit suicide by sitting on a railway track, but ultimately, she wasn't able to go through with it.  She did not have food to eat or a place to sleep. She started to beg for food and she used to sleep in the cemetery. One day she even had to cook roti/chapati in burnt wood of the dead body because she doesn't have alternatives. After that, the thing is getting on the track.

She has since then devoted her entire life to orphans. She is called 'Mai'(mother). She has helped over 1,050 orphaned children. As of today, she has a huge family of 207 sons-in-law, 36 daughters-in-law, and over a thousand grandchildren. She still continues to fight for their next meals. Man children whom she adopted are well-educated lawyers and doctors. Her biological daughter is running his own independent orphanage. She has been honored with over 273 awards for her work.

A Marathi-language film Mee Sindhutai Sapkal released in 2010, is a movie inspired by her true story.

2. Bhagalpur kids and Steady Poverty in slums.
COVID-19 pandemic ruined the lives of people all over the world. Likewise, I bring the stories of Bhagalpur kids who eat frogs for their daily meals to survive, and about steady poverty in slums. Before this pandemic, the children were dependent on government education where they get to fill their stomachs in school by mid-day meal, get school consideration money, clothes/shoes others for the cover their body which is more enough to them. But now, the schools are closed and they can't even get good food to eat or clothes to wear.
Steady poverty has blinded the vision of people to work. This is a small sad story:

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A poor man comes to a hotel and buys the full of tin fodder which includes customers' waste rice and other spoil foods. We think that the fodder is for animals but it's too sad to say that they use that fooder for themselves to eat as daily meals. They go to rivers and by using the net they separate the rice from the dirtier fodder and wash it afterward. They cook that rice for their meals. We can see that slums are the unseen portion of every country. Their childhood dreams would be to carry books and copies in their bags but instead of it replace backpacks by plastic sacks as they are employed in child labor to collect raw material, plastics, bottles others to sell it and bearly earn 50 to 100 rupees in a day.

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3. Unheard cases of raped infants and underage girls.
A four-month-old baby girl from Hardoi who came to Lucknow was raped and killed in the process in February 2020. The accused cousin was arrested. Although some people consider that to be justice for the poor girl, in my opinion, even the death of the accused cannot count as justice. He ruined many lives because of a slight mishap, as he murdered an innocent child as a result of his sick animalistic instincts.

An eight-year-old girl was raped by her three cousins on Raksha Bandhan. Yes, it happened only a few days ago. The three cousins are reported to be above 20 years old. The suspects have been taken in custody and have faced charges.

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Sunday, August 2, 2020

Student life with Part-Time Jobs

 Why do students always seek for the part jobs and what is the best part-time job?
 
The reasons for doing a part-time job is to earn money, develop skills and techniques, self-dependent, to maintain the gap between finance and their wants, to get more experience or knowledge in that particular field. Financial problems force students to search for a part-time job but they don't do those jobs. Since they take pride in their qualifications and standards, they feel uncomfortable and disgraceful doing those jobs. No job is big or small, because we seek every person's help as every job is important for the functioning of society.  I have also seen some students are doing part-time jobs and earning money for their basic needs, however, they sometimes get cheated by their employers, and the trauma of being betrayed shifts their focus away from their priorities. As a result, they don't get much time to study. What will happen if they have to do their part-time work during their exam times?

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Mostly students and people also get trapped in the cage of difficulties were they invest their money and time without much knowledge on the subject, but more often than not, the companies are fraudulent and scammy. As a result, people lose motivation to do work. So, I will help you to study these things when you're looking for part-time jobs. I hope it makes it easier for you to fulfill your wants with enough security. 

I will not specify the common part-time jobs, which are easily available around your neighborhood.
I will begin by listing various potential jobs online as well as the offline marketplace which requires no investment. I'm mentioning these jobs to you in my own perspective:

  • Freelancing - Being visible to other people who want to pay people for doing their work can be a suitable option if you are fairly good at a certain skill. Websites such as Fiverr, Freelancer, and Upwork lets you list yourself and build your work portfolio so that people can hire you to work for them, while they pay you good money.
  • Survey Office Boy - Companies and government offices conduct surveys all the time. they are always looking for young people to go out and do the surveys for them, and that could be another great opportunity for you to make some extra money.
  • Finding buyers for sellers' second-hand goods - Websites such as OLX and Quickr allow people to sell their second-hand goods, and if you find buyers for a seller who wants to sell, then you can earn a small commission for every buyer you find.
  • Insurance Agent - Insurance companies are always looking to sell their insurance plans, and you need nothing else but good people skills in order to get hired for part-time gigs. For every sale you make, you earn a small commission.
  • Back Assistant - Doctors' Clinics, Law Clinics, Hotels, Accounting Services, etc. sometimes are overworked and look to hire receptionists or assistants for their business to run smoothly. They also provide handsome salaries.
  • Tour Guide - Tours and Travels services are often seeking part-time Tour Guides. You can choose to do the job during the holidays or also even during the night. 
  • Tutor - Tutoring students in your field of expertise can be done online or in person. Fees from tutoring will act as a huge bonus for your pockets.
  • Newspaper Agents - This is one of the easiest jobs out there, it takes very little time to distribute newspapers around your neighborhood and you will get paid by the newspaper company for the work you do.
  • Translation/Transcription -  If you are fluent in two or more languages, you can opt for a translation/transcription job. This kind of job is available mostly online.Want to work while studying? These students will show you the way ...Struggles of doing a part time job as a college student

I haven't mentioned ventures like blogging, affiliate marketing, Content Development, Making YouTube videos, and Multi-level Marketing because although many people believe that these can be done easily in short periods of time, however, that is not the case. If you have a lack of proper knowledge, no rich content, or enough time,  to pursue these part-time careers, it can prove very difficult for you to earn even enough to make your rent for one month or recovery.

The reason I excluded jobs like Babysitters, storekeepers, security guards, waiter and Delivery Boys, Logistics Company Drivers, others because these are very common and I assumed that you already knew about them. Also, a lot of Multi-Level Marketing schemes are scams these days, so my advice to you is to stay away from seemingly fraudulent schemes like pyramid schemes and schemes which ask you to invest your money, promising huge returns. Don't even think twice before saying NO to the people who offer you this kind of "opportunity". I do believe, "marketing is the best but it can be the worst if you failed!. Please don't rely on the company document its better if you do the case study. "We should get more details from sources like Wikipedia, Investopedia,  International, or National article/news websites coverage or other various reliable websites before entering this kind of job because they can manipulate our data or information for their interest". - AWARENESS

However, it all depends upon you how you deal with it but I can assure you that when you'll fall you'll get some knowledge and experiences which help you to grow in your daily life. Things get easier if you have a passion for it.


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Contributor: Hemant and Yugen

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Friday, July 17, 2020

How qualification percentage marks do matter in your career

This article is related to those students who had scored between 33% to 50% of passing marks and faces the bummer challenges and problems in their daily life.  

     "How qualification percentage marks do matter in your career".

"Why do,' we believe and accept the good result can decide our good career'? "


We believe that 'a single sheet of paper can't decide our future'. Yes, it is true but today I'm gonna tell you about the disconsolate paradox hidden reality of the student problems and challenges that they are facing, face, and faced by them. This gives the bitter taste to the society, system, institution, organization for doing this partial and disgraceful thing to the students. Performing less and scoreless marks gives a bad reflection to the career even we qualified and promoted to the next higher level of the qualification.  Why do we think, so? Even, we are promoted and qualified for that particular qualification with there passing criteria percentage mark. Our question is," what we do with a less performing student? The main reason behind the qualification with no jobs represents these phases.  

People can see how the student has suffered, frustrated, and carry forward their blurry future when they don't get admission and jobs with regard to there poor-performing percentage mark according to their college, courses, Subject, Job application, test even they are promoted to there qualification. Our mind is always chased by the question, how could this happen when I get promoted but can't able to join and get admission to there own interest subject?
The students are promoted with 33% of passing criteria and below 50%  gives them bummer challenges with no appreciation which, measures the percentage mark but not the interest and quality of that particular student. The gap between them is so vast. We do believe If, they are pass and promoted then why don't they get such opportunities and eligibility. If, such an obstacle directly impacts their career, why don't they change our passing criteria increasing to avoid these problems and races?  This tends to the emergence of the quality and quantity of the students. We cannot blame them for the low-performance percentage mark of the student cause different students have different capacities of achieving knowledge, using skill-techniques, interest-preferences, quality, achievement, desire. Rather than, blaming, comparing, and racing then we should encourage them cause they can include 'you' or they replace the words with your own brother/sister. We the human creatures are not the same as other creatures. Why they promoted us if there is no place to enhance/value no use of their qualification certificate and degrees. We bring the different phases of the student where they're facing, face, and faced:



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Class 10: According to the passing mark criteria  33% - 40 % why do he/she don't get interest subject and stream according to him/her. Most of the time students get denied their admission with no seat., student can't perform well in that subject,  school reputation we don't accept lower-ranking students, compartment students don't get admission even he/she qualified and promoted. This void fundamental right," the right to education". 

Class 12: According to the passing mark criteria 33% - 40% why don't he/she don't get such interest courses in this particular mark even the education bodies give the qualification passed certificate.  We do believe different colleges have different norms to get enter. Likewise, we get some eligible entrance tests for a different vision for different marks. Is this necessary, for them to levy such restriction to the low performing student. such restriction gives them big scars to the near future no choices no admission in colleges, no eligibility tests, limited seats, no jobs, reputation, etc.
   
Graduation and others: Scoring low marks in the graduation degrees give them nightmare shocks which means straight-line rejection. If your completed graduation you will further move towards to pursue a PG course or else you'll find a new job.  We know that students have to score  45% to 55% of marks to apply for eligibility test central/state ranking Govt.as well as PVT. Job. My question for you is that - What the remaining students will do if they have scored 33% to  44% even they are also, pass, and graduated.  After graduated and a PG courses, most of the people give you the advice to start a new startup, Pvt join instruction, etc, but it's not easy for everyone and every dreamer does not belong to the same dream as what they dream before.

Most of the time our parents, elder sister, senior scold us and provide suggestions regarding our less performing performance. Generally, this all happens due to our system, society, institution, the organization where they demand a higher percentage for applying for their colleges, Jobs, Test, course which ultimately boost there goodwill/reputation. In this middle of the part, the student is racing with each other.  Our Govt.  declares 33% passing percentage criteria is very low sound for the achievement and growing level of the student knowledge whereby the careless arise and no fear of the failing. This virtual image quotes for them who were just pass and get the lower percentage," a broader army with no hope where the bullet fired from". The scars are fading up through there re-examination and retry which tends to waste time and money. It'll be okay for the wealthy people but what about the poor. Ultimately, It'll hamper student life.  
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However,  we cannot totally replace the system but, we can erase this kind of problem and make certain changes. Increasing the passing percentage marks 40 % to 50%   criteria/benchmark leads the student to forces and drives them to achieve better marks and helps them to come out with a better position than before. Changes in the syllabus adding practical, case study, internship, Projects give the new additive information and knowledge improvement. No restriction mark for applying in the entrance eligibility test for jobs this helps to treat every student as equal chances to perform. Free Interest to choose there subject, courses according to them for there self-actualization.  The rise in relief funds and financial budget boosts in the education system gives new opportunities backbone framework. We need some social responsibility and reforms in the education sector. We know that there will be some loophole but it'll work much better than before. 


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You think your problems are huge? Here are tough stories or incident based on real life events which I had ever heard.

All of us in this modern world glorify our own problems and hype them up to such an extent that we forget how lucky we are. We have lost gra...